The Montessori training centre frequently talks about consistency. This can sometime mean that in Montessori practice, there is a slight apprehension about change. Consistency is seen as the cornerstone in the ambience of preparing the toddlers however when they will be left to a world which is so unorderly, how do you think the kids can adapt to the patterns? Although when they are taught about their community, culture and education through a certain format, it helps them grow confident; but change is a natural part of life. From seasons to choices, everything will change and the child should have the ability to be flexible and cope up with the situation. Any form of chaos is difficult but they have to slowly learn how not to be reliant on an adult but face it by themselves.
Preparing the kids for small changes
While a certain sense of consistency can definitely make the little ones get hold of any situation better, there can be some slow and study changes which can generate fascination and interest. Those can be easy to manage because it happens not so consciously but knowing them as important changes can help them appreciate the switch. For instance, the first snowfall of the season or the slow death of their favorite plant because of ageing can be some experiences which help them prepare for a change that they otherwise have not put in a lot of thought into.
Getting ready for bigger changes
This can be a more challenging thing and as professional Montessori educators, you should help them understand that this is what makes the beauty of life. For instance, if somebody is having a brother or sister should be gradually told about how there will be a new member in the family; if there is a new movement to different place altogether, the kid should be slowly explained how he or she can have new friends with new teachers and new experience.
The most important part in this is to have detailed talk with the toddler. They should be involved in the situation to give them a sense of importance. It sometime can seem to be counter-intuitive in preparing the kids too far in advance, but this is a harmless procedure and most of the time they will develop a sense of belongingness and responsibility. Slowly and steadily they can also prepare for the routines how to tackle the change.
When you are dealing with a kid, you need to have more time understand that it can take longer for the kid to cope up with the situation. Pay more attention to them. Parents can narrate the daily experience, tell them if they had any changes or express their concerns about a certain change that is also affecting the kid. If there is any meltdown, be ready within extra hug and extra snack!
Maria Montessori called the brain of children under 6 years old as the absorbent mind. They have the ability to learn without effort during this age. The conscious effort will help them change their personality and attitude which can make them into a better person. Whatever is change, try to make it look good and help them grow confident from the situation.
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